A Letter To The Motherless On Mother’s Day

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Today sucks, I know. It’s going to be hard. But so is every other day since you have lost your mother. There is absolutely no love in this world like the love of a mother. There is a void that cannot and will not ever be filled, no matter what anybody tells you. You don’t miss her today any more than you will tomorrow, or the next day, or the day after that.  Today, Mother’s day, is just another painful reminder that she is no longer physically here. As you watch friend’s  celebrate with their mom’s, please remember that yours is tucked away deep down in your heart where she will forever stay.  As the wind blows through your hair, know that it is her gentle and loving touch. As the warmth of the sun shines on your face please remember the warmth in your mother’s heart through all of the days she had on this earth. She didn’t want to ever leave you and she still hasn’t left you. Your mother was greater than this world. I know sometimes life just doesn’t seem fair and it never will but please, please, don’t cry today, for your mother would want nothing more than to see you smile. I feel the pain within your heart as another day passes by without her. She doesn’t want you to be sad. She wants you to honor her life in the best way possible, and that way is to live it. Live it for you. Live it for her. I know it is sometimes easier said than done and sometimes words just don’t help and I know this because I lost my beautiful 48 year old mother almost four years ago when I was just 24. I have come to find that the best way to heal is to remember. Remember her. Remember the sorrow, remember the love, remember everything. Talk to her, she’s always listening. And simply cherish the time you did have with her and the memories you have made.  I want you to know that on this day, you are not alone. You are never alone. All of our mother’s are watching over us from heaven this Mother’s Day… and every day, for the rest of our lives.

Happy Mother’s Day to all of the motherless out there. Today is your day, too. Celebrate her, start a new tradition, live life to the fullest, and most importantly remember that even through the darkest of days, life still goes on.

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  1. Susan

    My mom died at age 48 too when I was 23 years old. That was 44 years ago and I miss her every day. Mother’s Day is always a tough day for me. It is hard to be joyful on on this day because my mother is not here to celebrate with. Life does go on and her memories will be forever in my heart.

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  2. Stephanie White

    My mother was killed in a Car accident with my older sister on October 28, 1987; I was 5 years old. Almost 32 years later and I still can’t believe that my Mother has been gone for majority of my life. When she died I was Confused and had to find a way to move forward in life. It has been hard. At age 37 this year it’s still fresh. I am actually thinking about my mother as I type and I still miss her even more today. 🌹Happy Mother’s Day Mom! I love You❤️😘 and Miss you so much! Your middle daughter Stephanie!

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  3. Cheree Davis

    My mom died when I was 12 years old. Her funeral was on Christmas Eve. That was 35 years ago and all I can say is being a mom has helped with soothing the pain I feel around this time of the year. Thank you for having a place to go and find other women like me.

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  4. Margie

    My mom died on Mothers day 7 yrs ago she was only 55.. I hate this day with all my heart .. I miss her every second of the day I’m for ever broken. 💔

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  5. Cindy

    My Mom died last July 2018 of Ovarian Cancer. Mothers Day is hard for me to think about. I Loved my Mother so much. Mom always put everyone else above herself. ❤️

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  6. Judy

    I lost my Mom when I was 5. She missed all of my life events confirmation graduations weddings new job my beautiful children’ and grand children. The death of my husband……

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  7. Yvonne Carnelus

    It’s been 19 years, but it seems like yesterday. This season makes me sad but I push through, because I must! I am a proud mother of 3 and blessed with 4 grands. I’ve got to keep it moving…but I miss mom sooo much!!

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  8. Joan

    My mother passed away April 4/2019. It’s been 5 weeks, today I tried to remember all the good times and find joy in those memories. Instead I cried and slept the day away. She fought so long and hard to stay with us that in the end the choice was no longer hers to make. I miss her and I’m so broke.

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